Orgasmic myths confirmed.

Ok, so we all know that a sure fire way to a female orgasm is through clitoral stimulation, right? Good. I was fairly sure, in fact COMPLETELY sure that this was the only way I could personally orgasm. Manual stimulation, a nice circular movement, use of a tongue does wonders as does a vibrator pressed against it. I have always been able to climax that way, and can have some pretty damn powerful orgasms.

But there are stories, in women's magazines and erotic literature, of different types of female orgasm. The clitoral, the g-spot, the vaginal and the multiple. The clitoral was the one we all knew about, but these others, well.... slightly more elusive.

Myth 1 - the G-Spot Orgasm

Fairly early into my relationship with Julian, we were in bed, having some pretty steamy foreplay. He was lying on his side, and had pulled my leg over his hips, spreading my legs open. He had slipped a finger inside me and was teasing me as we kissed. After a few minutes I started to feel something unusual, an intense pleasure from where his fingertip was. It took me a moment to realise that he was actually rubbing my g-spot, and that it was working. As we kissed, I could feel the intensity of the pleasure increase until I cried out and held him close, having experienced my first g-spot orgasm. I kissed him intently afterwards, slightly amazed at what had just happened. I told him that nobody had ever done that to me before, naturally he was very proud of his abilities as a lover.

Myth 2 - The Vaginal Orgasm

The first time I spent the whole night with Julian, we made love several times. When we arrived at his house, he pulled me down onto the sofa and started kissing me passionately before telling me that he had to have me, and I had better get upstairs or else he would have no control and take me right there on the floor. I found that to be incredibly sexy.

Sex, as in actual penetration, whilst pleasant, had never held the orgasmic appeal of oral to me. I liked it, but it didn't make me come. But this time, something changed. As I lay on my back, my legs wrapped around him, and Julian gently thrust into me, I started to feel a pleasure that I had never felt before. It built up so softly and sweetly that I didn't really understand what it was until I felt my muscles contract and my body shiver with the pleasure of it. It was an orgasm, and it happened with no clitoral stimulation at all. It was a completely different type of orgasm as well, if you imagine a clitoral orgasm being akin to surfing on a tidal wave, this was a Sunday afternoon paddle on the water - softer, sweeter, but by no means less satisfying. I was in shock, I really had no idea that it was even possible to come with no clitoral stimulation, and yet, I had. It wasn't a one-off, either, it happened between us many times from then on in, and sometimes we even came simultaneously - very sexy with a whisper of "I love you".

Myth 3 - The Multiple Orgasm

This one I will remember for as long as I live. I had spent the evening helping him to unpack and sort out his new place, and we put some rice on to go with the dinner I brought. We were upstairs, I'd made up his bed, and he told me that he was very grateful for all my help and wondered how he could repay me. He started kissing me and swiftly stripped me out of my clothes before laying me down on the bed and using his tongue to tease me to an intense orgasm. As I was recovering, he kissed his way slowly up my body, concentrating on my breasts, and then my neck, before slipping on a condom and making love to me. As soon as he entered me, I felt a wave of pleasure, I started to come immediately, and continued to do so for the whole twenty minutes or so (yes, you read that right) that he made love to me. I moved against him a little, but was basically lost in ecstasy for the whole experience. The orgasm just kept on coming, rolling over and over me like waves on a beach, endless. It was incredible, and the two or three times that it happened between us, were just amazing.

So, I was lucky enough to experience all of these - and hopefully I will again.